You Can Get Your Ex Back – Broken Heart or Broken Friendship?

You want to get your ex back but are you willing to sacrifice a broken friendship to prevent a broken heart? What is more important pleasing your peers, or winning back your ex? Many people using no contact to repair their relationship have to make a choice. They have to choose between what their peers think they should do, or to follow a proven plan. Sometimes that choice could lose them some friends. Are you willing to lose some friends to get your life back again?

Friend or Foe?

When a break up occurs there is usually mutual friends shared by both you, and your ex. They think they are doing you both a favor by getting involved. The fact is most of the time, they screw things up more than they help. Especially if you decide to follow a proven plan like the no contact rule. If you really want to be successful using the no contact rule you will need to keep your personal life to yourself so it doesn’t leak back to your ex.

How could it leak back to your ex? Through your mutual friends, and family. Why they do it is anyone’s guess. I think people just like to meddle, as long as it isn’t their business. Getting your ex back may require losing contact with some of your friends, and family. Your personal journey will be a lonely trip, but the rewards at the end (surviving a broken heart) far out weigh the sacrifices along the way.

You Can’t Have Your Cake And Eat It Too

If you ask any super successful person on the face of this planet how they achieved all their goals, they will tell you they made hard decisions, and many sacrifices. If you truly want to get your ex back you have to be willing to do the same, understand? Too many times people want to have their cake, and eat it too. Especially your ex when they demand to stay friends. I am going to say a phrase “Social Networks” social networks (FaceBook, MySpace) work against you during no contact, why? Rumors and innuendos.

This is where your ex, or your exes friends post things for you to see to rattle your cage, and make you break NC. Especially an ex boyfriend or girlfriend that is trying to win them back during your break up.

OK, so now you see what you’re up against. It is time to make a choice. Your friends, or get your ex back?

This won’t be a permanent thing, and it will show you who your “true” friends really are. If they get upset, and turn their backs on you in your time of need, then so be it. You can’t be socially active, and get your ex back at the same time. What I mean is you can’t be active on FaceBook etc. You have to kind of drop off the face of the electronic earth. You can’t have your cake and eat it too…time to make a choice.

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S. Williams

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